Not Your Average Counsellor

Episode 46: Enabling or Empowering

Do you ever crack the sh!ts because nothing ever changes? Are you frustrated because you’re stuck in the same situation and find yourself making the same “justifications” for the lack of action on your part?Well, I can bet my bottom dollar that YOU ARE ENABLING your own behaviour. Yes! You read that right IT'S ON YOU! Find out the HOW you do it, WHY you do it and WHAT to do about it in this episode.
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Episode 45: Breaking Promises

I’m going to start getting up early, I’m going to drink two litres of water a day, darling I promise I’ll be back from the pub by 11pm…
When we break a promise, we essentially break trust whether that be with ourselves or others.
Why do we do this? Why do we continue to do this in some areas of our lives? And what can we do to stop it? Find out in this episode.
 
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Episode 44: There is no such thing as Failure

So there is this thing you really want to do… maybe apply for a new job, write that book, run a half marathon, learn the guitar, ask that person out.
BUT YOU DON’T!
You procrastinate, make excuses, say its lack of motivation and then…I bet you berate yourself, especially when you start flicking through Instagram and see others out there having a crack and a seemingly good time while doing so.
And although you may have all the justifications (for your inaction) under the sun…. when you really stop and think about it….are you just AFRAID of FAILING?
What if I told you there is NO SUCH THING as FAILURE, only LEARNINGS?
 
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Episode 43: Psychology of Achievement

The secret to achievement......INTERNAL success. Find out the what? and how? in this episode.
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Episode 42: Momentum

Momentum can fuel powerful change. In this episode I’ll share why this so, as well as some simple ways to generate momentum in your life on the daily.
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Episode 41: Chunking Up or Chunking Down

So you’ve got all these goals, yet when you throw in the many thoughts, desires and ideas going through your head on the daily how can you take action without getting overwhelmed?In this episode I’ll introduce you to a method which will help you make sense of the inner dialogue so you can achieve what’s really important.
 
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Episode 40: Mindset, Where To Start?

Mindsets are habits of the mind, they shape the lives we lead, the actions we take and the future possibilities of the world we live in. When things aren’t working for us we are often told we need to shift our mindset, but where do we start? Find out here.PS. In this episode I refer to two previous LIVEs/Podcasts they are:Growth or Fixed Mindset - Which are you? (Episode 30)FOMO (Episode 20)
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Episode 39: What’s Keeping You Stuck?

In this episode I’ll give you the circuit breaker to help you put your big boy/girl pants on and take control of your life.
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Episode 38: Poor Little Old Me

Ever been convinced that life is beyond your control and something or someone is deliberately out to hurt you or let you down?
Maybe you don't feel this way but someone you care about does.
In this episode find out how to STOP this thinking and why it is important for you to do this NOW.
 
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Episode 37: You are Overwhelmed

What should I cook for dinner? Shit the kids need to be picked up 15 minutes, I need to send that email quickly, I must not forget to pick up a gift for my daughter’s best friend, f&ccccck there is no fuel in the car! RELATE? If so, you my friend are OVERWHELMED!In this episode I crack the code on overwhelm and provide you with some practical tips to lighten your mental load so you can manage what life throws at you.
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